Have you ever found yourself working hard on your blog but not reaching your goals? You’re trying all the things but not seeing the desired results? I’ve been there. And the cause wasn’t what I expected.
So often we find ourselves chasing the next technique, tactic or strategy to help us grow our blogs and online businesses. But sometimes, it isn’t a certain strategy that is holding us back.
Sometimes, it’s ourselves.
That’s hard to accept.
It’s hard to say, “I’m the reason I’m not progressing. I’m the reason I not reaching my goals.”
Here are some things that might be holding you back. Or at least, they held me back (see my story in the video at the end).
Doing too much at once
Content creators tend to have a lot of ideas. At any given point in time there can be numerous ideas and projects floating around a blogger’s mind. If you’re like me, you get excited about all those ideas and start working on all of them! Blog posts, videos, products, courses, sponsors – not to mention all the other things a blogger has to do in a day.
Here’s the thing though: working on too many projects at once usually results in A: not finishing some or all of the projects or B: half baked projects that aren’t done as well as they could have been if you had only focused on one project.
While it might be tempting to try and build + grow you Instagram, Facebook and YouTube all at the same time – just pick one. Focus all of your attention on Instagram. Learn it, master it, be involved and active there until you’ve got it down. Then, move on to the next platform.
If you have an idea for an ebook and a 4 week email challenge, pick one and fully execute it before working on the other. I know it sounds simple, but so often I see people trying to pursue multiple projects at once.
Limit your projects and tasks.
Letting competition influence you
Competition.
It’s a love/hate relationship.
When I asked my audience what their biggest blogging time waster was, almost everyone said something about competition.
Comparing their blog to the competition.
Trying to be like the competition.
Feeling like you have to do everything they do.
Not feel like you were as good as others in your niche.
It can be mentally exhausting and challenging to constantly be comparing your blog and your journey to others in your niche.
Just Stop
There is always going to be “competition”. There will always be other people in your space. But we can’t let them influence our decisions or how we feel about ourselves. I have to constantly talk myself out of this but I am getting better all the time. I try to see my competition as friends and instead of comparing try to support them in their growth.
Obsessing over perfection
I know you’ve heard it said a hundred times, “Done is better than perfect”.
Why then is it so hard to not want it to be PERFECT?
The best of the best. Top Notch. No mistakes.
Often times, fear drives perfection:
“But what if it’s crappy and no one likes it?”
“What if it’s not as good as so and so’s?”
“What if someone complains or criticizes?”
The fear of not being good enough holds us back from reaching our goals. Trying to be perfect drives that fear.
Fretting over perfection can limit our growth. Don’t hold yourself back because it isn’t perfect. Allow yourself room to grow and improve over time. It is okay to not be the best. It is okay to fail and disappoint. It’s normal.
Not making sacrifices or investments
When you’re striving to grow and reach goals, you will have to make sacrifices and investments. Which can be hard, especially if you’re just starting out.
It can be hard to spend money on your blog.
It can be hard to use your free time to work on your blog.
But, there is no such thing as easy money or easy work. If you want to reach your blogging goals, you will probably have to make some sacrifices. You will mostly have to invest some money and time in the process. Being willing to sacrifice and invest will free up more time, resources, energies to growing your blog.
What is holding you back from your blogging goals?
If things are not going how you want them to. If you are not seeing the results you want. If you constantly feel like you’re spinning in circles when it comes to blogging… maybe it’s time to take a personal inventory.
Are you holding yourself back?
Are your actions and mindset keeping you from growing your blog?
They held me back.
These four roadblocks held me back. They held me back from finishing projects. They held me back from growth. And eventually, they led to me quitting.
Here’s my story. The story of how all of these things held me back.
In the video, I made a big announcement! If you’d like to hear more about it, make sure to get on the waitlist!
Luckily, my story goes one. I am overcoming these roadblocks. I am reaching my blog/biz goals. I am doing it! And you can too!
Thanks for helpful advice!
You’re so inspiring! Thank you for this article 🙂
I loved your video,Kristie!
I’ve had your emails saved but have kept them so I can read them all at once. I just got the Pinterest Dashboard up on my analytics account. I thought it would be hard, but it worked perfectly. How you came up with this is beyond me! I love it. How amazing it is…
You are so young to have learned these lessons so well. I’m not young, but still have to remind myself to do only one thing at a time, and not compare myself or my ministry/business with others. I know as long as I keep my eyes on the Lord, He will lead me one step at a time. And you have been part of it. Your emails are so ‘right on.’
Thank you for not quitting forever!
Thank you for taking the time to write me this message Ann. So heartfelt and encouraging. I too have to constantly remind myself, even though I’ve “learned” them. It’s too easy to get caught up in the comparison trap/
True, Really all the 4 things mentioned in this are very true and i’m also suffered form them. But now all the things are OK. Thanks kristie hill for sharing this amazing post with us and make us part of it.
Thank you Kristie
Two of what you mentioned above is actually my problem but am getting over it already
Kristie, Such an inspiring article. Eye-opening sentence is “Done is better than perfect”. I loved your video. Keep up the good work.
Thank you Kristie. That is one of the most inspiring videos and blogs I have read in a long time.
I am only new to your subscriber following but wish you so much success with your new course and again thank you for showing the real, vunerable you.
Thank you Karen. That is very kind and generous of you to say. Happy to have you on the list. 🙂
Sometimes you receive a message when you don’t even realize you need one. Thank you for sharing your struggles. I have felt like I was drowning with the amount of work I am piling on myself lately and have wanted to scale back a little. Although I know it is OK…hearing your words, I now know it is what I truly need to do.
Oh Jada! I’m glad to hear this message has helped you. <3 It's weird to think that scaling back can help us grow - but it definitely helped me out! Hopefully it will for you too.
Hi Kristie! I’ve been following along with your journey for a bit now and was really moved by your video. For me, it was the first time really seeing your true personality, and it’s great!
Big high five for having the courage to share your honest feelings the way you did.
I hope you’ll keep being yourself and I look forward to following your ongoing journey and endeavors.
Cheers! Jon
Thanks, Jon! This comment made my day. 🙂 I’ve been behind the keyboard and “tech tutorials” for so long, it was fun to do things differently with a video of me.
Thanks for following along and for your continued support. It means the world!
Kristie, I’m so excited for you! Thank you for sharing your own experience! I’m encouraged!! I loved the video. Looking forward to hear more about your course!
Thank you Yoyo! I’m glad you love the video and felt encouraged. So good for me to hear. I’ll be sharing more details about the course as the month goes on.
Great job Kristie! I’m sure that was difficult to share the rise and fall of you work as a blogger. Thank you for sharing those resources! I’m going to go hunt a few of those books down today. You have been instrumental in my start to all this and I am grateful! Can’t wait to see what else you have in store! Keep going! 🙂
My launch is about a week or so away! Eek!
Thank you Roz! It was hard but I felt like it could help others to.
I can’t wait for your blog launch and to watching your blog journey unfold. Exciting times!